Help Me Please!?

Well I have a boy problem. Well starters I'm 17. I'm dating this guy who lives in the next town over (like 10 min away). I never see him! & when I want to see him he always make excuses. He is 18 & has no car. Its like I'm doing all the work to see him. I have 2 take a train & then take a bus to even get 2 his house. He knows that I don't like having ppl over at my house b/c its always so hectic. & lately he hasn't been calling me like he used to. Also on his myspace his ex left a comment saying "I love u baby". Like all his friends know that we r dating. & like in the fall he will be going to college in another state. He is so sweet though, a great lister when it comes to my problems, he does everything for me, he always cook for me when I see him. Like he leaves me sweet voice mails to wake up to. & sends me adorable text messages.I just don't know what to do. A relationship can't evolve if we don't see each other. But then there is this other guy, he doesn't know that I have a boyfriend. But he is more there. He lives like an hour away but he has a car. I just don't really like him like how I like my boyfriend, but if I see him more I may start to fall for him, I don't even know if anything is there, he says he wants to get to know me more, but he to is going off 2 college... HELP